As a mentee, you are generally expected to drive the mentoring relationship. This can be daunting when your mentor has more experience than you, is more senior than you, or if you simply don't have a huge amount of experience running 1-to-1 meetings.
Having prepared questions may feel a bit cheesy, but your mentor will appreciate the effort you've made and you will find the conversation flows when you start with purpose.
To help, we've found 25 questions that cover 4-key areas: stories, situations, self-awareness, and skill-building.
Feel free to revisit the below questions as you build your relationship, some might be great ice-breakers while others may help you to maintain momentum.
Ask your mentor to tell a story from his or her career. Some questions to consider:
1. How did you land your current role?
2. Think back to five years ago. Did you envision this is where you would be?
3. Can you tell me about a time when you had a difficult boss? How did you handle it?
4. How did you learn to embrace failure?
5. What’s the most important leadership lesson you’ve learned and how is it valuable?
6. Tell me about a recent setback and how you recovered?
7. Was there ever a job position that you applied for and got, but you weren’t 100% qualified?
8. How did you build the skill of always speaking so engagingly in front of others?
Identify a challenging situation and share it with the mentor. Ask your mentor to act as a sounding board. Some questions to consider:
9. I’m considering a career transition. What do you see as the pros and cons?
10. Who are the people I need to align with in this organization to achieve success?
11. What advice can you offer on how to progress in my career?
12. How do you successfully stay connected to key influencers who do not work in same office or geographical area?
13. When trying to gain buy-in to implement a new program, what tactics have worked for you?
Ask a question that invites your mentor to contribute to your self-awareness. Some questions to consider:
14. Where do you see my strengths and what should I focus on to improve?
15. What do you see as some of my blind spots?
16. How do you think others perceive me?
17. How I am viewed by leadership?
18. Do I come across as poised and calm?
19. How am I viewed (i.e., what’s my personal brand) in our organization?
20. Did everyone understand what I presented at the last meeting?
21. How could I have communicated my idea more clearly?
Identify a skill you currently want to develop, and ask your mentor for advice or resources. Some questions to consider:
22. How do you approach risk-taking?
23. What new skills do I need to move ahead?
24. How can I become a more assertive negotiator?
25. How can I become better at managing people who do not report to me?
This article originally appeared in beleaderly.com
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